Hi everyone. cjmeller and paulab - what GREAT sisters you are.... hope tomorrow goes well for yours paula, and cj, well i am just sending you so much respect - my beloved mum was a bit like your sister by the sounds of it... love them madly and want to help desperately by listening to all their issues , but sometimes it all just gets toooooo much. and do they listen anyway when advice is asked for and given.... well my mum didn't, but i did know that when i first opened my mouth.

having said that i am so happy we talked, we listened/heard!! and we were close. all worth it really but I do understand why you feel you need to cut her off from time to time. totally understandable to me.
i was laughing that my bad typing in the recipe (of sorts) created some question marks, it is butternut squash! net - not! pb, i was just wondering if parsnip and carrots and buttenut at one meal might be too much for you (as you are so good about quantities etc - me I would just do it and enjoy!) but I remember from other diet I did for many years, all those veg were considered 'heavy' as opposed to 'free' - i think sbd calls them starchy veg. anyway as i said i am sure it will be okay, but if you do feel a bit peckish, that COULD be the reason. having said that, sometimes i do add in sweet potato to the mix and it does not seem to affect me..... (editing to say..... having just re-read Kimboroni's(sorry if i spelt that wrong too) post I see she articulated what I was trying to say.... I wish I had that full screen option!)
Wednesday 04/11
Exercise: nothing
B: oyster mushroom and parmesan omelette
MS: hummus and celery
L: whole wheat toast, 1 slice ham, 2 t mayo, plenty salad, 1 orange
AS: some illegal dates!

and they were not even that fresh..... tut tut
D: thai fish cake to start, then ½ peri peri chicken breast with plenty of salad, white wine (i actually have a glass most nights)