| soulmia
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MARCH 2006 AND CURRENT
GOOD GOD!! WHICH ONE'S THE ELEPHANT!!?? WHY MY DB LOVES ME AT THIS SIZE, I'LL NEVER KNOW!!
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 4:11 pm |
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| country bumpkin
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| I can understand your frustration..but in all honesty your not that big really. We are ones worst critics. |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 4:42 pm |
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| soulmia
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| you ae too kind. The fact that I'm wearing black and it's night hides the fact that the elephant's ego is completely boosted standing next to me. |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 4:47 pm |
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| country bumpkin
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| to cute...just keep plugging away. You get to ypur goal..I promise. If i can do it anyone can. I have 0% will power and self control. I have I have done just so far. |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 4:50 pm |
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| soulmia
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:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
do you have before and after pics too?
and I hope you're looking at me and commenting... I am the one one the right of the elephant :lol: |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 4:52 pm |
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| Tril
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Soulmia... I know you're in a bad spot right now, between the trainer, the scale and your mom coming... yeah, you're in a bad spot. Try though, for second, to step away from yourself. Imagine you are your best friend, looking you... listening to your concerns. What would you say to Soulmia to make her feel better? Would you say, "Gee... I have no idea why your bf loves you." NO, of course not. Would you say, "Hey... here's a knife, cut it off." NO, of course not. What WOULD you say? Soulmia, part of learning to love yourself is learning positive self talk. You'd never allow anyone else to say the things you do about yourself. You'd be so mad. But yet, you let yourself say them... and... you let yourself BELIEVE them. It's a habit we get into... and maybe it's a way of buffering ourselves because we think it's what other people are thinking when they see us. Only, it's NOT. I look at your pictures and I think... OMG, she's so pretty... way too pretty to be so down on herself... she's young... she's warm... she's loved. I did NOT look at your picture and think... she's fat. Not for a second. Next time you're tempted to have negative self talk... make that voice be quiet and practice saying something positive about yourself. It's hard in the beginning, but it's get easier. Try it!
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 6:25 pm |
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| country bumpkin
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Yes, I do have mine posted..Ill go grab the link for you.
http://www.southbeach-diet-plan.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=65939
I dont have a current one since I lost more since those pics..but you get the idea. |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 6:28 pm |
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| ladybugnessa
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soulmia wrote: you ae too kind. The fact that I'm wearing black and it's night hides the fact that the elephant's ego is completely boosted standing next to me.
if you don't cut it out i'm gonna have to spend 3k and come to bangalore and beat your butt! |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 6:30 pm |
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| country bumpkin
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| Also, i wasn't commenting on your DB! LOL He is a cutie though! lol |
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Mon Nov 27, 2006 6:32 pm |
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| soulmia
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country bumpkin Yeah...bengt ( My DB) is a cutie..He's swedish and I call him my lil swedish meatball :lol:
Nessa What I would give to have someone on this WOE come here and help me through this. I am finding this journey incredibly hard...so if it takes 3k, COME!!!!! :)
Tril You gave me so much to think about.... and thank you.
I was chatting with another forumer yesterday and she really kicked my arse!!! :lol:
But I made a decision last night...I decided not to make jokes about my weight and not to have negative things to say about myself.... I may think them ( hey, it will take some time....I've had 32 years practise at being lousy to myself) but I will not let them be vocalised.
Also, I have decided to just take my mom's visit as i should... enjoy her visit...and if she does get the look.... I'll just tell her that it hurts me. Yeah it will be an argument or a denial from her... but she won't do it again....
So everyone...thank you. TRULY. you have NO idea what it means to come here and vent.
It's a new city for me. I have no friends...and the forum is my venting board.... Love you guys! :oops: |
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Tue Nov 28, 2006 2:13 am |
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| cortcase
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Soulmia, I've been reading some of your other posts so when I saw you posted pics here I decided to check them out. I think you're very pretty!!!
There's nothing more frustrated than trying to lose weight -- believe me, I know, I've been playing with the same pound for like three weeks -- but just have faith in SB and you will succeed! These boards are a lifesaver for me, and I know they will be for you, too! Good luck! |
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Tue Nov 28, 2006 11:19 pm |
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| soulmia
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cortcase: Thanks for the kind message. Not only was I low because I haven't lost any weight... but I was just being extremely hard on myself.... until a few of the forumers gave me a big kick in the rear!! :lol:
LOL! So I've bounced back...and how! :D
Do stop by and stay in touch |
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Wed Nov 29, 2006 4:49 am |
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| Kirian
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| Glad to hear you are in a better frame of mind now. You are a beautiful girl. I really do look forward to seeing some progress pics. |
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Mon Dec 04, 2006 9:57 pm |
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